... and I wonder

Somewhere along the line many of us women are led to believe that being pretty is enough. And while we rely on that, we forget to strengthen our minds so that we can learn how to think, how to build. How to survive. We forget how to live our lives to protect our spirit, to be clean and decent. We forget that everything we do matters so much.

Every right decision brings us blessings. Every wrong decision brings us pain.When we hate ourselves we destroy our bodies with alcohol, drugs, casual sex and a bunch of other nonsense. Then we look at ourselves and hate ourselves even more. And then, when times get hard, our struggle and our pain shows on our faces and our bodies. When people see our pain and weakness in our face they say, ' She used to be fine, she used to be this, she used to be that' aha...When men feel our beauty has faded we become shocked at how well they ignore us and forget us. Unfortunately women will do anything to get their attention,money,love....weak.